My name is Flory, I am from Romania and I have been living in the UK for more than 10 years.  I am 43 years old and I want you to join me in the journey of my phisical and mental transformation. I have been married for 22 years , the marriage bringing me 2 beautiful children. Like many other women, I abandoned myself in order to focus on raising a family and completely forgot about what it means to be a woman . I made this blog to show you how one day I decided to wake up from the great numbness I was feeling.I decided to start living for myself and heal from all my anxieties, fears and unhappiness. Through this blog I will describe step by step what I did every day. The journey of my transformation  began more than two months ago and has continued throughout my everyday.  2 months ago when I decided to change my victim mentality and become friends with food . The day when I decided to change myself , my weight was at about 130 kg. I have lost 8 kg in 2 months. In the next days I will write step by step what I did every day. I  hope you will be with me in large number  and that I can share my enthusiasm with you !!!!